Thursday, April 8, 2010

beFOUR you...

Before you grow another inch, learn another word or gain one more bit of independence. Before you stop calling your chin, your "chinny chin chin," and before you stop wanting to be a mermaid princess. Before my kisses stop healing your owies and before my silly stories stop making you giggly and wide-eyed. Before I can't carry you on my hip and before I can't throw you on the bed and before I can't scoop you up and cradle you in my arms. Before your hand no longer fits in the palm of mine and before your feet don't drown in my high heels. Before "Mommy" becomes "Mother" and before I stop being able to answer your questions. Before you stop pretending and playing and dressing up. Before you stop riding your rocking horse buck naked with cowboy boots and your Easter hat. Before you stop eating from Dora plates, flower utensils and drinking from princess cups. Before you stop mimicking me, wanting to be just like me and before I stop being your hero. Before you stop wanting me to tuck you in and kiss you goodnight and before your prayers of thanks stop including rainbows and fireworks. Before you have one more birthday and before you have one more first. Before who you are right now becomes who you were.

Before you turn 4, I want you to know. I loved you even before I met you. I loved the hope...the promise of you. You were a miracle when I first saw you and you are a miracle every single time I look into your big espresso eyes. You have brought me so much joy and wonder and perspective and pleasure and magic and laughter and there is not one day that has gone by that I haven't humbly thanked our Creator for selecting you for me to raise and mother. You are sweet and loving and affectionate. You have a tender heart and soft spirit. Sometimes when I'm with you, I get a tiny glimpse of who you are becoming and will be and I'm just overwhelmed... little you... overwhelm me and amaze me and inspire me.

Before I forget the details of your little face and the subtleties of who you are right now, before the daily and even hourly transformation of you creeps in and steals the little you from my arms and my eyes and just a few short weeks before your birthday, I want you to know. I LOVE YOU so very much. I want you to know that your name, Rhapsody~ "an effusively ecstatic expression of feeling or enthusiasm," fits both you and my love for you, perfectly.


Amy said...

Dang it. This one should come with the "do not read this at work while your boss is sitting nearby and thinks that you are reviewing Excel spreadsheets because he's suddenly going to think that your budget report is going to be very very bad. So bad in fact, that your eyes are welling up with tears."

So, so sweet. That mother love thing is just so ooey gooey awesome. What a precious gift.

Bill, Kim, Kaitlyn, and Ryan said...

Happy birthday M.! Tava, again you brought tears to my eyes. In just two short years, you will sit here in your living room reading your friends' blogs while your precious daughter watches her daily show and reflect again. You will see a young lady who has lost those baby cheeks and is even more independent that you thought was possible when she was four. You will look back to four and think it was a lifetime ago. I want to rewind, pause, stop time and hold the little babies of yesteryear, but also don't want to miss out on watching her become her own person. Squeeze those sweet girls for me!